Sunday, December 22, 2019
Thursday, December 5, 2019
Wednesday, November 27, 2019
SEE THE POTENTIAL WITHIN
Last month I went to company outing at Kallang Bowl, this is the second time I play bowling, so fun yet lots of lesson learned for myself.
Since I never play this game before, so i tried to see how others do, and try to "copy" their style to me, BUT never success, then I try again and again till I found my OWN STYLE, which I feel most comfortable doing it, and after I practice it, IT WORKS!! Eventho its DIFFERENT and not match as how normally people do, but it doesn't matter!! EMBRACE THE UNIQUENESS IN YOU! That's makes you different with others!
The moral lesson here is UNDERSTANDING YOURSELF IS VERY IMPORTANT! THEN YOU CAN UNLEASH YOUR REAL POTENTIAL, THE REAL YOU IS WITHIN!
Sunday, August 4, 2019
Tuesday, July 30, 2019
3 LESSONS LEARNED FROM A TAXI DRIVER
When I went back to Indonesia last months, I got different experiences as I got life lesson 'coach' from the taxi drivers who bring me from home to the airport.
He is Singaporean, but he is from Indonesia, been living in Singapore for a long time ago, his grand-grand father bring him and other 20 family members to move from Semarang, Central Java to Singapore. Not sure why they move but this is an insightful life tips from him.
To be great n fulfilled in Life u must do 3 things!
1. Control ur mind, dont let ur mind control u.
If ur mind is good, ur heart will good n u will doing good
2. Be honest to yrself,
ur heart must be steady, otherwise u cannot be honest to yrself
3. Be a hardworking person
God has give us mind to think, so use it wisely n productively.
u must know what u are going to do everytimeS u wake up in the morning, be purposeful, so no one can stopped u
Think like a man of action, act like a man of thought
Singapore,
Rara Indah Permatasari
He is Singaporean, but he is from Indonesia, been living in Singapore for a long time ago, his grand-grand father bring him and other 20 family members to move from Semarang, Central Java to Singapore. Not sure why they move but this is an insightful life tips from him.
To be great n fulfilled in Life u must do 3 things!
1. Control ur mind, dont let ur mind control u.
If ur mind is good, ur heart will good n u will doing good
2. Be honest to yrself,
ur heart must be steady, otherwise u cannot be honest to yrself
3. Be a hardworking person
God has give us mind to think, so use it wisely n productively.
u must know what u are going to do everytimeS u wake up in the morning, be purposeful, so no one can stopped u
Think like a man of action, act like a man of thought
Singapore,
Rara Indah Permatasari
3 LESSON LEARNED FROM THE LION KING MOVIE
1. REMEMBER WHO YOU ARE
Nothing can change what is INSIDE, Understand who you are, be bold and brave! yet if you are not find one, keep looking, keep discovering, believe in yourself! Keep going and keep moving forward.
2. THE MOST POWERFUL WEAPON FOR A LEADER IS COMPASSION
Leader not own everything but responsible to take care of everything, Lead with compassion and empathy. When your people is success, the business performance will come up by itself.
3. TRUE LOVES WILL ALWAYS FIND IT WAYS
Singapore, 30 July 2019
Rara Indah Permatasari
Sunday, July 28, 2019
BE DIFFERENT! WHAT GOT YOU HERE WON'T GET YOU THERE
I'm grateful to grow up in Indonesia, where you cannot get everythings easily, you need to do something different to find out a way to get what you aiming for, this process has shaped my creativity n innovative instinc, as simple as creating this -so called innovative hanger tools, this is a combination between broom stick and items hooks in supermarket, use this to hang up clothes in ceiling hanger which 2x higher than mine, problem solved 🤓
Thursday, February 14, 2019
HOW TO ARGUE WITH CAT Key takeaway
Knowing what you want is the first rule of persuasion.
Is this a good time to persuade?
A persuader seizes every
opportunity. The perfect time to get a cat to come is when he is hungry. The
best time to persuade a man of anything is when he is hungry.
It
may be better to make your opponent feel like he won even while you end up
getting what you want.
As
every cat knows, a dignified posture wins respect.
Do you look confident?
Don’t think of the times you missed. Think
about all your successful kills.
Is he paying attention?
A distracted audience is much harder to
persuade. When you argue with your cat, you must entertain him.
If you want to
get your audience to change its mind or do something, try switching to the
future tense (‘Come here and I’ll give you a treat’).
When you want
action, ask for bits of action. And offer little bits of treat each step of the
way.
the best ways
to persuade people is to be agreeable.
Even if you disagree with someone, or your
opponent attacks you personally, nod your head and listen. Don’t get angry. And
don’t push back against any of his points. Hold your fire.
With a cat argument, wait until the cat wants something. Then try
to bargain.
Catch the bald guy
In rhetoric, this art of waiting for the
perfect moment is called kairos (KI-ros).
Someone skilled at kairos, such as a cat, not only knows how to wait. She also
knows exactly the right moment to act, to seize the occasion, letting no temporary
lap go un-sat-upon and no bug unchased.
Much of persuasion depends on kairos.
Someone who is not ready to be persuaded won’t be ready until her mood changes.
For instance, never ask someone to cook you dinner while he is cleaning a
toilet. (Only cats and dogs can keep their appetite around toilets.) Never ask
a favour when someone is angry. And never ever, under any circumstances, say,
‘Calm down.’ That just ruins every occasion.
Practise timing in any office meeting by
speaking last. Wait until people want to hear from you.
Sunday, January 13, 2019
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